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There are days when parent guilt hits harder than we expect. Maybe it’s the moment we snap because we’re stretched thin. Maybe it’s realizing we’ve been running on empty for so long that the smallest thing sets us off. Or maybe it’s that quiet heaviness, the feeling that we should be doing more, doing better, doing something differently.

We’ve been there. And honestly, we still end up there more often than we admit.

But what we’ve learned in our family of three, us, as two imperfect-but-trying parents and our son Squish, is that guilt feels very different when we don’t carry it alone. When we choose to turn toward each other instead of inward. When we remember that we’re a team, not two individuals silently trying to “hold it all together” in different corners of the house.

That’s exactly what Better Together was built to hold:
A reminder that connection isn’t a luxury, it’s how we get through the hard stuff without losing ourselves.

When guilt shows up in our home, it usually arrives the same way:
quietly, suddenly, and wrapped in the feeling that we should have handled something differently.

We’ve learned that guilt can pull us away from the people we love most—especially when we get stuck replaying moments in our heads instead of returning to connection.

And that’s exactly where Squish Games steps in for us.

We created Squish Games as one of our pillars because play is the simplest, most human way to come back together. Not forced connection. Not “perfect parent” moments.
Just us… slowing down, laughing again, and choosing togetherness even when the day has been heavy.

It’s our way of rebuilding a little piece of the modern village right in our living room.

There was a stretch of time when we kept telling ourselves, “We should be doing more as a family.”
More memories.
More adventures.
More… everything.

We’d scroll through pictures of families taking big trips, smiling with matching shirts, ticking items off bucket lists like they had an unlimited supply of energy and money. And there we were, one little family of three, barely holding the week together, wondering if we were falling behind in some invisible competition.

But the harder we tried to squeeze “doing more” into our days, the heavier that not-enough feeling grew. It wasn’t Squish’s fault. It wasn’t even about travel itself. It was about us, carrying unnecessary pressure, comparing ourselves to people we didn’t even know, and believing that love only counted when it looked like a highlight reel.

And then we had that lightbulb moment:

Maybe we didn’t need more. Maybe we needed meaning.

That realization changed everything.

There are days when we look around and feel like we’re supposed to be doing everything “right.”
The chores. The routines. The learning moments.
The endless list of things parents think they should have handled by now.

And then the guilt sneaks in, the kind that whispers
“You should’ve taught that by now.”
“You should’ve handled that better.”
“You should be further ahead than this.”

We’ve felt that heaviness too.
Not because of anything Squish does, but because of the expectations we put on ourselves.
That’s the moment we realized something had to shift.

Not bigger routines.
Not perfect systems.
Just us, growing in small, steady ways.

That’s how Squish Skills became one of our most grounding pillars.

On the days when parent guilt feels like it’s sitting on our shoulders, the raised voice, the rushed morning, the too-busy afternoon, the moment we wish we could redo, we’ve learned that one of the fastest ways we reset our capacity is by stepping outside into our little garden space.

Not to be productive.
Not to fix anything.
Just to breathe, slow down, and remember we’re human too.

There was a season when we ended most nights replaying every moment we wished we had handled differently. It wasn’t that we didn’t care, it was that our tank was empty.

We weren’t showing up with the patience we hoped for.
We weren’t showing up with the calm we wanted.
And we weren’t showing up for ourselves at all.

The guilt wasn’t because of our child.
It was because of our capacity.

And the moment we realized that, something shifted.

Parent guilt often arrives in the soft places, after the house is finally quiet, after a long day of trying, after a moment we wish we handled differently.
It doesn’t come from not loving our kids.
It comes from loving them so much that we notice every gap between who we are and who we want to be.

We all know that weight.

And over time, we realized something that changed everything:

Guilt doesn’t mean we’re failing.
It means we care.
And caring is the starting point for change, not proof we’re doing it wrong.

This is where our six pillars were born.
Not as a perfect parenting system, but as a way to steady ourselves when guilt feels heavy and the day has felt bigger than our capacity.

Below is how each pillar helps us move through these moments, and how you can click deeper into the one you need most today.

We still remember the exact moment it hit us, the moment that made our stomachs drop just a little.

We were rushing through another airport with our son, doing that fast-walk-but-not-a-run parents always seem to master. Our bags were too heavy, our tempers were too short, and our little guy was quietly trailing behind us… not complaining, but also not smiling. His tiny hand was gripping his stuffed animal so tight that the fur between its ears was flattened.

And we suddenly saw ourselves, not from inside the chaos, but from the outside.

We weren’t traveling with him. We were traveling around him.

That realization felt like a light bulb shattering instead of turning on. It was sharp. It stung. And it forced us to pause long enough to admit something we didn’t want to say out loud:

Traveling with kids isn’t overwhelming because of their behavior.
It’s overwhelming because of how disconnected we feel while trying to “manage everything.”

We realized we weren’t building memories.
We were racing between logistics.

And if we kept going that way, we knew we’d look back one day and realize we missed the moments that actually mattered.

So we decided, right then, right there, that things had to change.

Not by making our son behave differently.
Not by making travel easier.
But by making connection the foundation of our family travel.

And that shift changed everything.