A Real-Family Resource for Parents Who Want Connection, Not Perfection

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We’re a real family learning out loud, creating a space where no parent has to figure life out alone.

Just honest stories, practical ideas, encouragement, and everyday moments.

Take what helps, share what you can, and leave the rest.

A Welcoming Space for Families Who Want Connection, Not Perfection

Today Not Tomorrow is a parent-friendly space built by our family of three.

We share the real moments, the messy, surprising, and meaningful ones, along with the ideas that helped us feel a little lighter and a lot more connected.

Whether you’re looking for stories, simple suggestions, or resources you can use right away, you’ll find them here.

This homepage gives you a gentle overview.

If you want a guided path through everything we offer

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Explore Our Six Parenting Pillars

These six areas reflect the heart of our brand and help families find what they need without pressure.

Your Yes Day

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Simple wellness habits, self-care reminders, and everyday practices that help parents feel grounded and energized.

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Squish Gardens

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Nature-based ideas, gardening basics, and calming outdoor activities to support your family’s nervous systems.

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Squish Skills

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Life skills for the whole family: routines, organization, emotional tools, and everyday skills you can actually use.

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Squish Travels

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Travel tips, road trip ideas, and simple ways to find connection during family travel, no perfection required.

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Squish Games

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Games, puzzles, and playful activities that bring families together and help create meaningful bonding moments.

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Better Together

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Relationship-centered ideas that make communication, connection, and family closeness feel more natural.

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The TNT Shop: Printables, Apparel & Parent Tools

Everything is created with real families in mind to support connection and simplicity in everyday life.

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A Few of Our Favorite Things

We get asked all the time what we use in our home: for games, travel, cozy days, cooking, and everyday life.

Here are a few of our current favorites, along with picks shared by other families who visit the site.

Take what helps, leave what doesn’t, and thank you for supporting our work while you explore.

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TNT Coaching: Start When You’re Ready

A supportive, realistic online coaching program built for busy parents who want to feel stronger and more confident, without pressure or perfection.

Learn About TNT Coaching ➡
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Meet Our Family

We’re a family of three trying to build connection in a world that moves quickly.

We share what’s real, not perfect, because none of us were meant to figure this out alone.

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Help Us Keep This Space Ad-Free for Families

We don’t use pop-ups, autoplay videos, or cluttered ads.

If something here has helped you, you can support our work by buying us a cup of coffee or choosing another small contribution.

No pressure, always optional.

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  • Your donation helps us create more free parent resources: including checklists, guides, printables, routines, and connection tools designed to help overwhelmed families feel calmer, more supported, and more connected.
    Every cup of coffee helps us keep Today Not Tomorrow completely ad-free and pop-up free.

  • Think of it as a small way to support our mission.

    We’re two teachers who spend nights and weekends building resources that we give away for free.

    Your support helps us keep this space going.

  • Absolutely not.

    Our blog posts, guides, and Parent Resource Library are free for everyone.

    Donations simply help us create more helpful content without cluttering your screen with ads or pop-ups.

  • You can buy us a single cozy cup of coffee, or support us monthly, whatever fits your budget and season of life.

    There’s never pressure or expectation.

  • Yes. All payments are processed through a trusted, secure platform.

    We never see or store your financial information.

  • Yes, absolutely, and honestly, every bit of support means the world to us.

    If donating isn’t in your budget right now (we get it), you can still help our family mission grow in ways that cost nothing:

    • Use our free resources and printables, they were created to genuinely help tired parents feel a little lighter.

    • Share our website with a friend, coworker, or another parent who might need a breath of fresh air.

    • Try the products we’ve created in the TNT Shop, every purchase supports the work we do.

    • Use our affiliate links when you’re shopping (at no extra cost to you).

    • Pin or share one of our guides if it helped your family, that small ripple helps us reach more parents who feel just as overwhelmed as we did.

    No matter how you choose to support us, reading a guide, pinning a resource, sharing with a friend, or simply being here, you’re making a difference.

    Thank you for being part of the Today Not Tomorrow family.