Board Game Night Basics: What to Play for Different Ages

A Personal Story

When I was little, my family didn’t have much time together during the week. My parents worked long hours, and dinner was usually quick before we all drifted into our own corners. But once in a while, my mom would pull out a stack of board games after dinner—Uno, Sorry!, and sometimes a puzzle that would take us days to finish.

I didn’t realize it then, but those game nights were magic. They were the rare moments when everyone laughed, playfully argued over rules, and forgot the day’s stress. It wasn’t about winning—it was about being together.

Now, with Squish, I want that same feeling—those small but powerful pockets of connection that don’t need a big budget, just a little intention and maybe some dice.

5 Easy Steps to Make Game Night Happen (and Why They Work)

1. Pick Games That Match the Ages at the Table
Why: Kids enjoy game night more when they can actually play and succeed without constant help. For little ones, choose games with fewer rules and lots of action. For older kids, introduce strategy-based games.
How: Make a “game night bin” with age-appropriate options so you can grab and go.

2. Keep It Short (at First)
Why: We lose kids—and busy parents—when the game drags on. Start with 20–30 minute games so everyone leaves wanting more.
How: Timed rounds or “first to X points” rules can keep energy high.

3. Make It a Screen-Free Zone
Why: Attention is the greatest gift we can give each other, and game night only works if we’re present.
How: Phones in another room, TV off, snacks nearby so no one “wanders” to the kitchen mid-round.

4. Rotate the Host
Why: Letting different family members choose the game or snacks makes everyone feel valued and keeps the night fresh.
How: Even a 5-year-old can proudly “host” by picking the game or pouring popcorn.

5. Celebrate the Play, Not the Win
Why: The real goal is connection, not competition. Kids learn sportsmanship, patience, and how to laugh at themselves.
How: High-fives for everyone at the end. Maybe a silly “loser dance” so even losing feels fun.

A Loving Message to Squish

Squish,

I hope when you’re older you look back at these nights and remember the way we laughed, teased, and leaned close over game boards. I hope you remember that it’s okay to lose and that the point of playing isn’t the trophy—it’s the togetherness. Life will get busy, and sometimes you’ll feel pulled in a hundred directions, but I want you to know that small, intentional moments—like one silly game night—can keep people connected for years.

Love Always,

Mom and Dad

Amazon Picks to Make Game Night Even Better

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  1. Uno Card Game – Easy to learn, fun for all ages, and quick to play.

  2. Spot It! – Perfect for younger kids and high-energy rounds.

  3. Catan Family Edition – Strategy fun for older kids and adults.

  4. Jenga – Great icebreaker and doesn’t require reading or complex rules.

  5. Reusable Dry-Erase Scoreboard – Keeps everyone in the loop without scrap paper.

Final Thought

Game night isn’t about having hours of free time or a closet full of expensive games. It’s about showing up, even in a small way, and saying: I’m here, and I want to spend this moment with you.

You don’t have to overthink it. Just grab a game—any game—and start. The memories will follow.

So here’s your challenge: This week, pick one night, pick one game, and play. Not perfectly. Not for hours. Just play. Then tell me how it went—I’d love to hear your family’s favorite game night win (or loss!).

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